Horoscope, Friday, July 20, 2012

The Leo moon is delightfully entertaining, if not a tad self-centered. Offset the tendency by bringing 10 percent more civility to your actions. Did you know that most acts of violence can be traced back to a single small act of rudeness? Graciousness and respect will have a ripple effect that could in fact save a life and change the world.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). Team up. If you have a shared goal, you’ll achieve it together. If you don’t, the onus will be entirely on you to come up with a sense of purpose and the motivation to move forward.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Situations that are different from what you expect and are used to will bring out the best in you. Since you won’t have a reference for interpreting external cues, you’ll be forced to pull from an inner wisdom.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). A Jewish proverb says: “I felt sorry for myself because I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet.” The less fortunate will have a way of startling you into gratitude.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). Your prejudices and judgments are only trying to protect you from danger. Instead of condemning yourself for what comes automatically to mind, examine it and determine whether it serves you or should be lovingly let go.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). You’ve been feeling like an unwanted guest in your own life lately, but that’s about to change. Remember that home is closer than you know, and sometimes it’s disguised as something unexpected.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). Some people only believe in fate when it’s to their advantage; when things go wrong, they invoke randomness instead. But everything is connected. Think carefully about your decisions and how they affect others.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Things might be tense at work or in school. Be sure to defuse any potential time bombs with a bit of patience, empathy and communication, before things blow up and out of proportion.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Misery might love company, but it secretly loves a little optimism and hope even more. When you’re commiserating with friends, remember to accentuate the positive and keep negatives in perspective.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). The hardest lessons often happen when we don’t even realize we’re in a classroom. But learning happens everywhere, so remember to pay attention, and don’t be afraid to ask the difficult questions.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Dark clouds are hovering, but like any summer storm, they will pass quickly. Just make sure your windows are closed when the rain hits, and remember to ride things out calmly.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). You’ve been flying high, and the skies are still clear and sunny. But don’t forget to acknowledge and thank the co-pilots and navigators that have been keeping you on course.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Many have been telling you lately to stop daydreaming and get things done. Just remember that all action begins in thought. Embrace your inspiration, and move forward when you’re ready.

TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (July 20). It’s like you can’t stop your good fortune. You’ll receive when all you’re trying to do is give. A practical approach to life will serve you well in the next three weeks, but by mid-August, you’ll be ready to stretch your imagination into interesting places, embellish on reality and enjoy a bit of fantasy. Invest in your business in September. Virgo and Leo people adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 30, 1, 44, 39 and 16.

WEEKEND LOVE FORECAST: ARIES: You’ll meet new friends who bring out something different in you. TAURUS: Your love appreciates the soft, kind voice and general tenderness you offer. GEMINI: You’ll enjoy playing with your image and changing someone’s perception of you. CANCER: Good old-fashioned handholding will bring great pleasure. LEO: You’ll tickle someone’s funny bone. When you hear the laughter, you’ll feel loved. VIRGO: You’ll change your opinion about someone and maybe develop a crush on this person, too. LIBRA: Putting friendship before passion is a sound idea that allows you to eventually have both. SCORPIO: Your parents would be proud of the way you handle your personal life this weekend. SAGITTARIUS: You can use an exceptionally juicy bit of information to your advantage and still remain honorable. CAPRICORN: Someone is observing the way you interact with your friends and the world in general. In sizing you up, they like what they see. AQUARIUS: A once complicated situation becomes suddenly very simple. PISCES: Your self-control will be a major factor in your relationship status.

COUPLE OF THE WEEKEND: Leo and Cancer are zodiac neighbors who usually feel extremely lucky that they landed next door to each other. They enjoy each other’s company, and there’s usually a lot of laughter, shared secrets and a generally easy social groove between them. This weekend the sparks of romance may also be a part of this affable connection — and probably initiated by Leo!

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